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<channel><title><![CDATA[Something Empowering - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 04 Sep 2026 15:43:44 -0700</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[How Understanding Chakras Can Help You Heal]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/how-learning-about-the-chakras-led-me-to-aha-moments]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/how-learning-about-the-chakras-led-me-to-aha-moments#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 19:37:30 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/how-learning-about-the-chakras-led-me-to-aha-moments</guid><description><![CDATA[       When you understand how and why each energy center functions, everything else in life begins to make more sense.Throughout our lives, we experience many situations that we naturally categorize into positive and negative experiences. Typically, those negative experiences are fueled by loss, neglect, abandonment, hurt, sadness, or anxiety&mdash;often leaving us feeling deeply angry.When we don't work on resolving these experiences, they grow heavier and heavier. Resolving them does not mean [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:30px;padding-bottom:30px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.somethingempowering.com/uploads/1/5/1/9/151972410/editor/chakras-something-empowering.jpg?1781110257" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">When you understand how and why each energy center functions, everything else in life begins to make more sense.<br /><br />Throughout our lives, we experience many situations that we naturally categorize into positive and negative experiences. Typically, those negative experiences are fueled by loss, neglect, abandonment, hurt, sadness, or anxiety&mdash;often leaving us feeling deeply angry.<br /><br />When we don't work on resolving these experiences, they grow heavier and heavier. Resolving them does not mean forgetting; it means transforming that negative event into positive energy by looking for the lessons or simply finding acceptance. Without that release, we often find ourselves repeating patterns because the underlying lesson hasn't been learned yet, triggering internal alarms that the body sends to let us know it feels in danger.</div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">&#8203;Listening to the Alarms</h2>  <div class="paragraph">We become aware of our triggers by listening to our bodies. However, because life often feels like a non-stop race, we tend to just shut those alarms off. For some people, the warnings get so incredibly loud that everything else starts to fall apart. This is exactly where learning how to stop and listen to our minds and bodies helps the most.<br /><br />The more you suppress an emotion, the more your body consumes it. The longer you sit and feel it without actively resolving it, the more that weight builds. In other words, whatever you do not process emotionally, the body keeps the score. It will eventually turn that stuck energy into a physical ailment, depending entirely on where that energy is trapped.<br /><br />For instance, chronic knee pain or stiffness often points straight to a blocked Root Chakra. Because the Root Chakra governs our feelings of safety, security, and survival, unresolved issues around financial stress, ancestral burdens, or a fear of moving forward in life can manifest as physical pain in our foundations&mdash;our legs, feet, and knees.</div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">&#8203;My Journey: Connecting Therapy and Energy</h2>  <div class="paragraph">When I first started learning about the chakras, I was in my mid-twenties and earning my master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. Personally, I was navigating several deeply stressful life events, dealing with loss, sadness, and anxiety. I was in the thick of my own healing journey while simultaneously training to become a therapist.<br /><br />Because I had loved meditating since I was 18 years old, holistic approaches always called to me. As I began to transform and heal my own energetic blocks, I was introduced to the concepts of the chakras. I had always collected crystals, so I began gathering books to learn more about each energy center.<br /><br />However, it wasn't until I applied this knowledge to my own healing process that I was able to truly make sense of the "weird" physical symptoms I had experienced my entire life&mdash;like the chronic pain in my knees that I finally realized was tied to a blocked root chakra from early childhood trauma. It showed me exactly what else needed to be addressed in therapy and healed so I could finally feel balanced.<br /><br />From there, I started paying attention to the areas that needed the most healing, leaning into practices like Reiki, sound healing, massage, and acupuncture. As time passed, my passion grew. I became a Reiki Master Teacher, as well as a breathwork and sound healing facilitator, which allowed me to actively channel healing energy directly into those stuck areas.</div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">&#8203;Returning to Balance</h2>  <div class="paragraph">Nevertheless, life happens. Even with all of my training and clinical experience, I still have to do the work. Reading about the chakras and incorporating multiple healing practices is what continuously helps me bring myself back into alignment. Life never truly stops, but you can always choose to pause, recharge, align, and flow a little lighter.<br /><br /><span></span></div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-highlight" href="javascript:;" > <span class="wsite-button-inner">Learn more</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is Your Body Speaking to You? How to Translate Physical Symptoms]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/how-to-translate-physical-symptoms]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/how-to-translate-physical-symptoms#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2025 15:55:54 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[anxiety relief]]></category><category><![CDATA[anxiety tool]]></category><category><![CDATA[body mind spirit]]></category><category><![CDATA[chakras]]></category><category><![CDATA[energy healing]]></category><category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category><category><![CDATA[healing journey]]></category><category><![CDATA[mental health]]></category><category><![CDATA[recovery]]></category><category><![CDATA[somatic healing]]></category><category><![CDATA[something empowering]]></category><category><![CDATA[stress management]]></category><category><![CDATA[wellness]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/how-to-translate-physical-symptoms</guid><description><![CDATA[    The body holds wisdom that the mind often overlooks.   &#8203;READING TIME: 3 Minutes&#8203;Have you ever noticed that when you are stressed about money, your lower back aches? Or when you hold back your truth, you develop a scratchy throat?In Energy Healing, we understand that the body, mind, and spirit are not separate entities; they are a continuous, weaving loop of energy. When our Chakras (the energy centers of the body) become blocked or unbalanced by mental stress or spiritual disconn [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:40px;padding-bottom:30px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.somethingempowering.com/uploads/1/5/1/9/151972410/published/p125.png?1768934577" alt="A woman in a white tunic sitting in a meditative pose with eyes closed and hands in Gyan Mudra, representing somatic healing and body wisdom." style="width:328;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">The body holds wisdom that the mind often overlooks.</div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br />&#8203;<br />READING TIME: 3 Minutes<br /><br />&#8203;<br /><br />Have you ever noticed that when you are stressed about money, your lower back aches? Or when you hold back your truth, you develop a scratchy throat?<br /><br />In Energy Healing, we understand that the body, mind, and spirit are not separate entities; they are a continuous, weaving loop of energy. When our <span style="font-weight:bold">Chakras</span> (the energy centers of the body) become blocked or unbalanced by mental stress or spiritual disconnection, that stagnation often manifests as physical discomfort. Your body isn't punishing you; it is simply speaking to you.<br /><br />Let&rsquo;s walk through the body, map the terrain of your energy system, and translate what your physical symptoms might be trying to tell you.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">1. The Root Chakra (Muladhara)</span><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Location:</span> Base of the spine, pelvic floor.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Theme:</span> Survival, safety, grounding, family, and financial security.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">The Body Connection:</span> This chakra governs the structure of the body&mdash;the bones, teeth, large intestine, legs, and feet. It is your foundation.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Common Physical Symptoms:</span><br />&bull; Chronic lower back pain (often linked to financial fear).<br />&bull; Sciatica or knee aches (fear of moving forward).<br />&bull; Issues with the colon or elimination (holding onto the past).<br />&bull; Varicose veins or leg cramps.<br />&bull; Immune system disorders.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">2. The Sacral Chakra (Svadhisthana)</span><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Location:</span> Lower abdomen, about two inches below the navel.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Theme:</span> Creativity, sexuality, pleasure, emotions, and flow.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">The Body Connection:</span> This center governs the liquid parts of the body&mdash;blood, kidneys, and bladder&mdash;as well as the reproductive system and hips.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Common Physical Symptoms:</span><br />&bull; Hip tightness or pain (storing emotional trauma or guilt).<br />&bull; Kidney or bladder infections.<br />&bull; Reproductive issues (infertility, severe cramping, fibroids).<br />&bull; Lower back stiffness (specifically linked to emotional rigidity).<br />&bull; Lack of flexibility in the body.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">3. The Solar Plexus Chakra (Manipura)</span><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Location:</span> Upper abdomen, stomach area.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Theme:</span> Personal power, self-esteem, willpower, and "digesting" life.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">The Body Connection:</span> This chakra affects the digestive system, liver, gall bladder, spleen, and pancreas.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Common Physical Symptoms:</span><br />&bull; Digestive disorders (IBS, ulcers, indigestion, gas).<br />&bull; Liver toxicity or sluggishness.<br />&bull; Chronic fatigue (leaking power).<br />&bull; Diabetes or blood sugar issues.<br />&bull; Weight issues around the midsection (protection armor).<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">4. The Heart Chakra (Anahata)</span><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Location:</span> Center of the chest.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Theme:</span> Love, compassion, forgiveness, grief, and connection.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">The Body Connection:</span> Connects to the heart, lungs, chest, arms, hands, and thymus gland.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Common Physical Symptoms:</span><br />&bull; Heart palpitations or high blood pressure.<br />&bull; Respiratory issues (asthma, bronchitis&mdash;often linked to suppressed grief).<br />&bull; Upper back and shoulder aches (carrying the weight of the world).<br />&bull; Circulation problems in the hands (difficulty grasping or letting go).<br />&bull; Weak immune system.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">5. The Throat Chakra (Vishuddha)</span><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Location:</span> The throat.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Theme:</span> Communication, truth, self-expression, and authenticity.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">The Body Connection:</span> Governs the throat, neck, thyroid, jaw, mouth, and ears.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Common Physical Symptoms:</span><br />&bull; Sore throats or laryngitis (swallowing your words).<br />&bull; TMJ or grinding teeth (unspoken anger or stress).<br />&bull; Thyroid imbalances (difficulty speaking your truth or keeping up with life's rhythm).<br />&bull; Neck stiffness/aches.<br />&bull; Ear infections or tinnitus (refusing to hear something).<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">6. The Third Eye Chakra (Ajna)</span><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Location:</span> Between the eyebrows, slightly up.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Theme:</span> Intuition, insight, imagination, and clarity of thought.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">The Body Connection:</span> Associated with the brain, eyes, pituitary gland, and neurological system.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Common Physical Symptoms:</span><br />&bull; Headaches or migraines (tension from overthinking or denying intuition).<br />&bull; Eye strain or vision problems.<br />&bull; Sinus issues.<br />&bull; Insomnia or nightmares.<br />&bull; Hormonal imbalances.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">7. The Crown Chakra (Sahasrara)</span><br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Location:</span> Top of the head.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Theme:</span> Spirituality, connection to the Divine, enlightenment, and consciousness.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">The Body Connection:</span> Connected to the pineal gland, the upper brain, and the central nervous system.<br /><span style="font-weight:bold">Common Physical Symptoms:</span><br />&bull; Sensitivity to light and sound.<br />&bull; Dizziness or vertigo (feeling ungrounded or disconnected).<br />&bull; Chronic exhaustion without physical cause.<br />&bull; Brain fog or cognitive dissonance.<br />&bull; Skin rashes (sensitivity to the environment).<br /><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:30px;padding-bottom:50px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.somethingempowering.com/uploads/1/5/1/9/151972410/published/p126.png?1766070159" alt="Infographic of the 7 Chakras on a human silhouette, showing the energy centers from Root to Crown for somatic symptom translation." style="width:487;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Your physical symptoms are a map of your energetic health.</div> </div></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-family: "Source Sans Pro"; font-size: 15px; word-spacing: 0.15px;">Bringing Healing and Alignment: A Recovery Ritual</span></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">If you recognized yourself in the symptoms above, take a deep breath. Awareness is the first step in healing. Here is a quick, holistic protocol to bring alignment to these areas:</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:bold">1. The Body Scan &amp; Color Breath</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Lie down in a quiet space. Bring your attention to the area of discomfort. Visualize the specific color associated with that chakra (Red for Root, Orange for Sacral, Yellow for Solar, Green for Heart, Blue for Throat, Indigo for Third Eye, Violet for Crown).</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Inhale deeply, imagining you are breathing that vibrant color into the body part. Exhale, imagining gray smoke (the blockage) leaving your body.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:bold">2. Somatic Release</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Energy needs to move.<br />&#8203;</span><strong style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">For Lower Chakras:</strong><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> Stomp your feet, dance with your hips, or take a walk in nature. Connect with the Earth.</span><br /><strong style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">For Upper Chakras:</strong><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> Sing, hum, or chant. Use sound vibration to break up the stagnant energy in the chest and head.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:bold">3. Salt and Sound</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">To clear the physical residue of energy blocks, take a warm bath with Epsom Salts</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> (magnesium relaxes the muscles and clears the aura). While soaking, listen to Solfeggio Frequencies</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> specific to the chakra you are working on.</span><br />&#8203;</div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title">&#8203;<span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">Ready to go Deeper?</span></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Healing is a journey, and you don't have to walk it alone. Sometimes we need a little extra support to clear deep-seated blocks or find the right tools to maintain our vibration.&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:bold">Book a 1:1 Session </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">if you are feeling stuck and need personalized guidance. Together, we can uncover the root of the imbalance and restore your natural flow.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Visit my </span><strong><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:bold"><a href="https://www.somethingempowering.com/https://somethingempowering.etsy.com" target="_blank">Shop</a></span></strong><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"> to discover empowering products designed to be your allies in daily alignment.&nbsp;</span>If you&rsquo;re ready to align your energy and find deeper inner peace, I invite you to pick up my <strong><a href="https://www.somethingempowering.com/chakra-healing-workbook.html" target="_blank">Chakra Healing for Beginners</a></strong> workbook to start your journey today.<br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&#8203;&#8203;</span></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.lulu.com/search?contributor=Cristina+Barcelo&adult_audience_rating=00&sortBy=PRODUCT_SALES_90_DAYS&page=1&pageSize=10" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Order Chakra Healing Workbook</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.somethingempowering.com/https://somethingempowering.etsy.com" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">Shop Empowering Tools</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:128px;"></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Sanando Heridas: Cómo la Pérdida de Mis Familiares Transformó Mi Vida]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/sanando-heridas]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/sanando-heridas#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2025 16:07:45 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[anxiety tool]]></category><category><![CDATA[duelo]]></category><category><![CDATA[empowerment]]></category><category><![CDATA[energy healing]]></category><category><![CDATA[family loss]]></category><category><![CDATA[feel better]]></category><category><![CDATA[fix a bad day]]></category><category><![CDATA[grieving]]></category><category><![CDATA[healing journey]]></category><category><![CDATA[mental health]]></category><category><![CDATA[overcoming grief]]></category><category><![CDATA[personal growth]]></category><category><![CDATA[sanando el dolor]]></category><category><![CDATA[something empowering]]></category><category><![CDATA[therapy tools]]></category><category><![CDATA[trauma healing]]></category><category><![CDATA[wellness]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.somethingempowering.com/blog/sanando-heridas</guid><description><![CDATA[    Mi prima Yajaira 'Yayi' y yo en Orlando, listas para ir a Disney por primera vez.   TIEMPO DE LECTURA: 5 MINUTOSMe tom&oacute; muchos a&ntilde;os salir de la tristeza que este d&iacute;a, 11 de diciembre, siempre me tra&iacute;a. Honestamente, no fue hasta que proces&eacute; el incidente en terapia de trauma, gracias a T.I.R. espec&iacute;ficamente, que finalmente pude sanar mi dolor. Hoy quiero compartirte algo muy personal, no solo para honrar a quienes perd&iacute;, sino porque s&eacute;  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.somethingempowering.com/uploads/1/5/1/9/151972410/published/p112.png?1765471885" alt="Picture" style="width:352;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%">Mi prima Yajaira 'Yayi' y yo en Orlando, listas para ir a Disney por primera vez.</div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br /><br />TIEMPO DE LECTURA: 5 MINUTOS<br /><br /><br /><span>Me tom&oacute; muchos a&ntilde;os salir de la tristeza que este d&iacute;a, 11 de diciembre, siempre me tra&iacute;a. Honestamente, no fue hasta que proces&eacute; el incidente en terapia de trauma, gracias a T.I.R. espec&iacute;ficamente, que finalmente pude sanar mi dolor. Hoy quiero compartirte algo muy personal, no solo para honrar a quienes perd&iacute;, sino porque s&eacute; que el duelo no procesado es una carga que muchos llevamos en silencio.<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-weight:bold">La carga de la culpa y el "hubiera"</span><br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Desde que fallecieron tr&aacute;gicamente al salir de un concierto en Puerto Rico en 2004, mi prima Yayi (quien era sumamente apegada a m&iacute;), su media hermana Laura y su pap&aacute;, mi t&iacute;o To&ntilde;o, esta fecha sol&iacute;a agobiarme.<br /><br />Originalmente hab&iacute;amos planeado asistir al concierto mi prima Yayi y yo, pero ese d&iacute;a no logr&eacute; conseguir transportaci&oacute;n, por lo que unas horas antes tuve que cancelarle. Por muchos a&ntilde;os me tortur&oacute; la culpa. Me persegu&iacute;a el pensamiento de qu&eacute; hubiese pasado si hubiera ido con mi prima, tal como le promet&iacute;.<br /><br />Recuerdo que ella sonaba decepcionada en el tel&eacute;fono cuando le dije que no pod&iacute;a asistir. Nunca antes le hab&iacute;a tenido que decir que no, pero ella entendi&oacute; cuando le expliqu&eacute; que hab&iacute;a quedado sin transportaci&oacute;n y, al vivir a dos horas de distancia, se me hac&iacute;a imposible llegar. As&iacute; que invit&oacute; a su media hermana mayor, Laura. Era su primera salida juntas.<br /><br /></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-weight:bold">Entendiendo el destino</span><br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Esa culpa del "&iquest;Qu&eacute; hubiera pasado si&hellip;? " me mataba por dentro una y otra vez. Pero al procesarlo todo, comenc&eacute; a entender que ya todo estaba escrito.</span><br /><br /><span>Dos semanas antes de su partida, de la nada, me chocaron el carro en la esquina de mi casa. El mec&aacute;nico demor&oacute; una eternidad en devolv&eacute;rmelo arreglado. Ese d&iacute;a, ninguna de mis amistades del &aacute;rea oeste estaba dispuesta a llevarme al norte. Simplemente, no estaba en mis cartas asistir. Esa es mi realidad, aunque por mucho tiempo me cost&oacute; aceptarla.</span><br /><br /><span>Parte de mis revelaciones, que siguen apareciendo m&aacute;s con los a&ntilde;os, es que todos tenemos un rol, una historia y una misi&oacute;n por cumplir. Al sentir su esencia en mis momentos m&aacute;s oscuros, pienso que quiz&aacute;s, antes de nacer, ellos acordaron sacrificarse para ayudarnos a los que quedamos aqu&iacute; a aprender lecciones fuertes.</span><br /><br /></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-weight:bold">El legado de mi prima: Vivir sin miedo</span><br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Los a&ntilde;os que mi prima Yayi estuvo en mi vida me ense&ntilde;aron tanto. Me ense&ntilde;&oacute; a aceptarme y a estar conforme con c&oacute;mo me ve&iacute;a; a cantar si me daba la gana y a escribir canciones; a re&iacute;rme de las cosas m&aacute;s tontas; a so&ntilde;ar en grande y, sobre todo, a no darle importancia a lo que piensen los dem&aacute;s.</span><br /><br /><span>Aunque hay heridas con las que aprender&eacute; a vivir siempre, procesar su muerte me ayud&oacute; a reencontrar mi felicidad. Decid&iacute; vivir las cosas que ella no pudo completar: honrarla, hablar de ella y mantenerla viva en mi memoria. Porque vivimos hasta que somos olvidados.</span><br /><br /></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-weight:bold">Rompiendo el ciclo del silencio</span><br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>Cuando el incidente sucedi&oacute;, no tuve espacio ni tiempo para procesarlo. Las expectativas en mi familia eran claras: aprende a lidiar con eso, pero por dentro, termina la universidad y ponte a trabajar.</span><br /><br /><span>Era obvio que estaba deprimida; todos lo est&aacute;bamos. Fue una tragedia inmensa, pero &ldquo;terapia&rdquo; no era una palabra que existiera en mi hogar. Si dec&iacute;a que estaba triste, la respuesta era: &ldquo;Date un ba&ntilde;o, que eso quita todo.&rdquo;</span><br /><span>Fact: It doesn&rsquo;t.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span>En muchas familias existe la costumbre de suprimir el dolor. Piensan que es m&aacute;s f&aacute;cil esconderlo que enfrentarlo. Pero lo que reprime la mente, lo sostiene el cuerpo. Al no procesarlo, revivimos el dolor internamente, creando &ldquo;triggers&rdquo; y acumulando cargas que tarde o temprano se manifiestan.</span><br /><br /></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:left;"><span style="font-weight:bold">Transformando el dolor en prop&oacute;sito</span><br /></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Despu&eacute;s de lograr sanar esa herida, transformar la culpa en aceptaci&oacute;n y el dolor en fortaleza, comenc&eacute; a ver la muerte de otra manera. 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